We see these posturing/shoving matches all the time in the NBA, and they're pointless. Late in Friday night's Phoenix win in Los Angeles the Suns called a timeout, then Tyler Ulis and Kentavious Caldwell-Pope got in one a shoving match. As happens, players from both teams raced into the fray to protect their teammate/break it up… except for Lonzo Ball, who looked at it and kept moving along.
I have defended Ball's actions as mature (he's right, nothing was going to happen), while others (fans and media) have questioned his leadership for not rushing to stand by teammates, pull guys out of the pile, and having a "band of brothers" attitude.
None of that matters, the only opinions that carry any weight are the ones in the Lakers' locker room. What did his teammates think? Lakers coach Luke Walton said a teammate did talk to Ball, quote via Ohm Youngmisuk of ESPN.
If his teammates were bothered, then there's an issue. It's more about perception than anything, again nothing was happening in that "fight," but perception matters. It's a small issue, but an issue. With young players this gets discussed, and everyone moves on.
Ball's passing and energy on the court are things teammates love. As his game matures - and he eventually finishes better around the rim and, hopefully for him, finds his jumper - and he grows as a bigger threat on the court, his teammates will forget this ever happened. As will fans. But when you play for the rabid (and not always rational) fan base of the Lakers, and when your father invites publicity and with it scrutiny, things get blown out of proportion. Welcome to Lonzo's world.